Making your ex love you again is the key to fixing breakups

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You’re breaking up because your ex has stopped loving you right? It makes sense then that the way to get your ex back is to somehow make him or her want and love you again. That’s a lot easier said than done I hear you say but what if I could give you a solid plan that has been proven to work.

A plan to make your ex love you again that uses techniques that are so counter intuitive that most people don’t know about them and are even less likely to use them. If you’re marriage is ending and you want to get your ex back would you give it a try? What do you have to lose?

You’re going to need a plan to hook you’re ex a second time

Most people fail to get their ex back after a breakup because they don’t know how to do it right. They follow their instincts which is the worst thing that you can do in this situation. If you want to succeed then you need to prepare and follow a plan that will give you the best possible chance of getting back with your partner.

There’s no magic bullet when it comes to getting your ex to want you back. Was it easy to get them to love you in the first place? Probably not. I guess that love at first site can happen but I never trust it and I’m sure it doesn’t last long. You’ll need to work at it and it is going to take time.

Here are 3 things that you can do right now that will give you more chance of getting your ex back than most couples have in the same situation.

3 Free tips to improve your chances of getting your ex back

Tip 1: Break up with dignity

Don’t burn your bridges to your ex if you might want to cross over them again. No amount of promising, pleading, crying or harassing is going to help you here. It will simply push your ex further away so don’t do it. Instead you must accept the break up and resolve to move on. You can tell your ex that you were thinking the same thing if you want to. This will keep the path clear for you to approach your ex again later when the time is right.

Tip 2: Go out and date other people

Go and get yourself a life. You have at least 30 days before you should think of making fresh contact with your ex so use it to have fun. Pay attention to you’re health and your appearance and start talking to people again. You might not have done that for a long time so it’s going to be very exciting.

There is a purpose to this dating apart from having fun though. You’ll find that the more you date the easier it gets to talk to people and the more it will boost your confidence. In short you’ll become more attractive which will help enormously when you start talking to your ex again.

Tip 3: After 30 days prepare a plan to get your ex back and make first contact

After 30 days you’ll be ready to start afresh with your ex but you mustn’t rush into it. You must have a plan. Know what you are going to do, why you’re going to do it and stick to it. This is crucial because you could screw it up at this point very easily.

For this to work you must approach it with knowledge of what you’re doing and with an attitude of getting on with your life with or without your ex. It would be nice to get your ex back but you can live without them. You won’t seem too pushy if you do it like this and your chances will improve greatly.

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Author: Steve Gee

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