Do this one magical thing and there is lots of hope to save your marriage

Learn the whole secret to saving marriage here

If you do the same thing that 99% of everyone else would do when your spouse tells you that they want to end your marriage then you’re going to have a hard time getting your partner back. On the other hand, if you do pretty much the exact opposite of what your intuition is telling you then you will give yourself more than a fighting chance and great hope to save your marriage.

What you mustn’t do if you hope to save your marriage and stop your divorce

Most people panic when they see the very real prospect of their life falling apart. Your spouse has just told you that you’re finished and so you want to fight to change their mind. You tell them of your undying love for them over and over again in the hope that they will suddenly realise what they will be giving up. You call and leave text messages every day promising a new start and a new you.

Do you think that this will work? I doubt it myself because all you will be doing is pushing your partner further and further away from you.

Fight to save your marriage – but do it the right way

Yes you must fight to save your marriage. It’s not going to be easy and you must do the exact opposite of what your intuition is telling you. It will take a lot of work on your part and you must go about it the right way if there is to be any hope that you can save your relationship from failure.

So what’s the big secret? Well the last thing you should do when your spouse tells you that it’s all over is plead. Don’t even think about trying to change their mind by making promises or offering to change your ways. At this point it just isn’t going to happen unless you go about making it happen in the right way.

If you want to turn your failing marriage around then you must do this first

Tell your spouse that it’s ok, that you’ve been thinking the same thing for some time and that you think it would be best if you split up. This might take your partner by surprise but either way it will take the pressure of splitting up from the shoulders of both of you and open the doors for new possibilities.

There is hope to save a marriage

Of course this is only the beginning of the rest of your life together and you have a long way to go before you can make it a realitly. By making your love aware that you’ve accepted the situation you’ve taken the first step towards making up. Instead of making things worse you’ve left yourself a way forward and you now have the possibility of starting over. Getting to know your spouse again and eventualy dating.

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Author: Steve Gee

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