How To Keep A Man Interested And Stop Your Divorce

Thursday, January 14th, 2010

Avoid break ups by learning how to keep your man interested

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Sooner or later even the closest, loving and committed relationships can become stale and lifeless. Eventually most couples will go through rough patches where being together seems just too much trouble and thoughts of divorce can creep in. This doesn’t have to happen to you if you learn how to keep a man interested.

Make sure your spouse has a life of their own

The first thing to remember if you want to keep your spouse interested in you is that your other half actually might want to have a life of their own. That doesn’t mean that they don’t want a life with you but you must acknowledge that they have their own friends and interests just as you do. If you don’t have any then I suggest that you get some so that you too can have a life apart from your loved one too.

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Don’t become clingy because it will drive him away

Whatever you do don’t become clingy and dependant because this is a sure fire way to drive your partner away. If you make sure that you both have interesting lives apart as well as a fulfilling and satisfying life together then you’re far more likely to avoid break ups and stop your divorce before it happens.

Make yourself desirable

Always look your best. Get yourself in shape with regular visits to the gym and make sure that you make good use of the more seductive outfits in your wardrobe but don’t do it for him. This might sound a strange thing to say but you should make yourself look good for yourself and not for your man. Well not all the time anyway.

Make sure he sees you looking great

If you look good then you will feel good which will give you confidence. If your man sees you looking great when you leave in a happy mood for a night out with your friends then he is going to be more attracted to you than if you were to stay in with him every night. He’s going to be wondering what he’s missing.

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Author: Steve Gee

How To Stop Your Divorce By Ending Your Marriage

Tuesday, January 12th, 2010

How to stop your divorce by doing the opposite of what you think

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The most natural thing to do when you realize that your spouse has grown tired of your marriage or relationship is to make them promises, pay them more attention and even plead with them not to leave you. This might seem to be the right thing to do to stop your divorce but in reality it will very rarely succeed. If you want to give yourself the best chance of getting your spouse back then you must do the exact opposite.

Don’t make false promises or plead

Making promises and pleading with your partner makes you look weak and pathetic and frankly not very attractive. If you do this then you are more likely to make things worse than better. Many years ago I was in a relationship that demonstrates the futility of chasing your dissatisfied spouse and how effective the exact opposite strategy can be.

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We had been together for 3 happy years when my girlfriend decided to take a course in a town 6 hours away. I was supportive and put her best interests above mine and we both agreed that we would stay together and settle down when the course was over. We saw each other infrequently during the 2 years of the course and even though my enthusiasm never faltered I could sense that she was drifting away from me.

I tried to get to see her more often and did everything I could to make her happy but when she finally returned I could see that the relationship was not going to be the same as it was before. I worked hard at winning her back for almost a year but I could see that she wasn’t interested and that I was just making things worse.

I told her that it was over and the unexpected happened

I finally decided that enough was enough and told her that it was all over. I just couldn’t live like that any more. The reaction I got took me completely by surprise. Suddenly she wants to make a go of the relationship and can’t understand why I want to end it. Suddenly I’m the bad boy when I’d been trying to save us for the past 3 years.

How to stop your divorce by backing off

The lesson I learned that day is that you should never chase a failing relationship. Instead you should remain strong and make sure that you have a life apart from your loved one. Don’t plead or make false promises but make sure that she sees you going out well presented, happy and living your own life. This will make you much more attractive to your partner and might just save your divorce or relationship.

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Author: Steve Gee

How To Save Marriage By Dating Other Women

Tuesday, December 29th, 2009

Dating other women is great for your self confidence

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Ok – dating other women isn’t going to save your marriage by itself but it can work wonders for your confidence and self esteem if you are going through a breakup. A boost to your confidence like this will be a key part in making up with your Ex down the line once you’ve had some time apart.

When your wife breaks up with you and she means it then the best thing to do is to agree with her and accept that your marriage has ended. This is the essential first step towards getting your wife back. You have to end the relationship before you can start afresh. This can be a far more effective way of saving your marriage than trying to avoid the break up itself.

The cooling off period

If you tell your wife that she’s right then the breakup will go much more smoothly and it will stop her from getting any further away from you than she already is. Once that’s over you must spend time on yourself. Get your life back and build your confidence. This is where talking to other women comes in.

How to talk to women and build your confidence

If you’ve been with your wife for any length of time then you may have got out of practice when it comes to dating or talking to other women. Don’t worry because it’s like riding a bike – it will soon come back to you and it does get easier. Just treat them like anyone else you might meet and make a point of saying something to them.

What to talk about

You can talk about practically anything you want but don’t try to be clever or inappropriate. Try to find some common ground. If you are in a hotel or an airport then ask her where she comes from and where she is going. If you are in a mall ask her about something she is buying because you might be interested in it yourself.

Use any excuse you can think of to speak to her. Most of the time the conversation will be brief and polite but often you’ll find that she wants to talk more with you. Yes it surprised me too.

Dating women boosts your chances

If you talk to enough women then sooner or later one of them will agree to have coffee with you and even go on a date. You won’t believe what a confidence booster this can be when it happens and when you’ve done it once it gets easier to do it over again. It won’t be long before you start to realize that you can live without your ex wife.

How to save marriage when you no longer need to

The best time to consider approaching your ex with a view to getting back together is when you realize that you don’t need her any more. If you still want to get back with your ex then now is the time to do it. You will need to prepare and have a plan of what you are going to do and how you are going to do it. There is a right and a wrong way to do this so don’t mess it up.

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Author: Steve Gee

How Can I Make My Ex Want Me Back – 3 Tips To Get Your Ex Back

Monday, December 28th, 2009

Making your ex love you again is the key to fixing breakups

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You’re breaking up because your ex has stopped loving you right? It makes sense then that the way to get your ex back is to somehow make him or her want and love you again. That’s a lot easier said than done I hear you say but what if I could give you a solid plan that has been proven to work.

A plan to make your ex love you again that uses techniques that are so counter intuitive that most people don’t know about them and are even less likely to use them. If you’re marriage is ending and you want to get your ex back would you give it a try? What do you have to lose?

You’re going to need a plan to hook you’re ex a second time

Most people fail to get their ex back after a breakup because they don’t know how to do it right. They follow their instincts which is the worst thing that you can do in this situation. If you want to succeed then you need to prepare and follow a plan that will give you the best possible chance of getting back with your partner.

There’s no magic bullet when it comes to getting your ex to want you back. Was it easy to get them to love you in the first place? Probably not. I guess that love at first site can happen but I never trust it and I’m sure it doesn’t last long. You’ll need to work at it and it is going to take time.

Here are 3 things that you can do right now that will give you more chance of getting your ex back than most couples have in the same situation.

3 Free tips to improve your chances of getting your ex back

Tip 1: Break up with dignity

Don’t burn your bridges to your ex if you might want to cross over them again. No amount of promising, pleading, crying or harassing is going to help you here. It will simply push your ex further away so don’t do it. Instead you must accept the break up and resolve to move on. You can tell your ex that you were thinking the same thing if you want to. This will keep the path clear for you to approach your ex again later when the time is right.

Tip 2: Go out and date other people

Go and get yourself a life. You have at least 30 days before you should think of making fresh contact with your ex so use it to have fun. Pay attention to you’re health and your appearance and start talking to people again. You might not have done that for a long time so it’s going to be very exciting.

There is a purpose to this dating apart from having fun though. You’ll find that the more you date the easier it gets to talk to people and the more it will boost your confidence. In short you’ll become more attractive which will help enormously when you start talking to your ex again.

Tip 3: After 30 days prepare a plan to get your ex back and make first contact

After 30 days you’ll be ready to start afresh with your ex but you mustn’t rush into it. You must have a plan. Know what you are going to do, why you’re going to do it and stick to it. This is crucial because you could screw it up at this point very easily.

For this to work you must approach it with knowledge of what you’re doing and with an attitude of getting on with your life with or without your ex. It would be nice to get your ex back but you can live without them. You won’t seem too pushy if you do it like this and your chances will improve greatly.

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Author: Steve Gee